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Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts

Monday, September 28, 2020

A deaf frog

 


A frog decided to reach the top of the tree. All the frogs shouted, it's impossible , it's impossible.

Still the frog reaches the top.

How?

He was deaf.

And he thought everyone was encouraging him to reach the top.

 

Moral:

Be deaf to negative thoughts, if your aim is to reach your goals.





Saturday, September 26, 2020

The lion and the buffalo

 One day, a lion was watching a herd of buffalo feeding in an open field. He had attempted to attack in the past but he was no match for the strong buffalo with their sharp horns and hoofs.

The lion had lost hope, however he couldn’t keep away.

Hunger kept him from coming back.

One afternoon, the buffalo had an ugly fight.

This time when the lion came to watch them, he found them in separate corners of the field.

It was now easier than ever to attack the buffalo one at a time, which the lion did to his great delight.

 

Moral:

Regardless of our differences, we must strive together shoulder to shoulder to work together. There is strength in unity.

United we stand, divided we fall.

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts – African proverb.






Saturday, May 27, 2017

Your are a Success balling

Your mess is your message and your vision is your permission to move. How are you holding up today? Do you compare your life with other people's lives and feel you are not doing well? Do you think the last 5 years or more you spent caring for your parents has been in vain or a waste of your money and time? Do you feel that degree you are pursuing is not what you should have? Be bold and have a positive spirit today. Life is coined with puzzles and mazes. However, you alone can decipher the clue to it because it is always there in front of you. Be proactive, face that challenge, do right by yourself and life will be simple for you. Rosemary Nonny Knight made a point on this which I want to share here: Everyone thinks they have to show up in the world as having it all together... They want to put on a mask and be all perfect... Knowing all things, being all things to all people, saviour of the world types that actually do not do very much at all because all their energy is taken up with trying to pretend they have it all made! And yet, we all KNOW that you are putting on a front! We all KNOW it and we dislike you for trying to be perfect (just so you know!) And we turn our backs on your crazy nonsense! The people we admire are the AUTHENTIC ones - the real ones that wear their hearts on their sleeves and somehow manage to keep things going... The ones that encourage us to believe that even though things are not perfect now, we have a shot! They show us that we could make more stuff happen if we just stayed on the journey... I used to be that person, pretending to know it all, pretending to always be happy and full of life but over the last year or so, I have progressively taken off the layers and laid myself bare more and more and more to the people I am called to serve... Why? Because I truly care for your happiness and it really does not serve you to think that getting everything you want is going to be a happy walk in the park while singing happy-clappy songs and doing nothing more than wishing for it! That has not worked for anyone I know, and I highly doubt that it will work for you! But then people get in their heads this idea that their hardship is theirs alone... that no one else has gone through the same nonsense... they make it mean that they cannot make their own business work... They make it mean any number of crazy things and guess what! It just means you are on the journey! And the ones that really make it and go on to impact crazy amounts of people and make an awesome amount of money, are simply the ones who own all their craziness, lay it on the line and keep doing the work anyway! Yes, honey, your mess is your message! Especially if you are one of my peeps, called to inspire, teach, coach, speak, heal... Then for real... No one wants your perfect, "I-have-it-all-together" nonsense... That may have worked in your corporate career where everyone is fake but in the entrepreneur world... No one can relate to that and you will just sound like every other nonsensical person out there trying to be perfect and bland... Let that nonsense go! And also, let go of the fake authenticity where you are trying to pull on my heartstrings every other second... And hoping that I will cry my way to buying from you because you told me your story of rags to riches... I need to have a gut reaction to you... And that only happens when I see you being vulnerable AND authentic... Have you ever had a vulnerability hangover? As Brene Brown, I think, puts it... Where you share something with the world and you wonder if you are breaking your business by being that real? And frankly, you feel sick that you did such a crazy thing... And you wonder if you can be that real again but... But you cannot do it any other way anymore because you are committed to building a life surrounded by people you are called to serve? And so, you have to trust the fact that the real ones will come and everyone else will be repelled... And what if you have spent most of your business life attracting anyone from anywhere and so now as you decide to show up powerfully as yourself, messy message and all... As you finally start to pay attention to that true vision that you have always had and you finally give yourself permission to be you in all your messy glory... You then see all the people you sweat blood and tears to get onto your mailing list, you see them start to walk away because that was not what they signed up for and in that moment you worry that you are maybe going too far but you choose to trust... Trust that as you deliberately polarize the lookie-loos, you will finally get in touch with the real ones... But it is scary... In your present moment, it is scary... And you wonder... But you keep the faith, you keep showing up, you refuse to let the fear overwhelm you... You put your game face on and you trust that your story, your mess is exactly what your people need to hear... And you trust that the vision you have carried forever is all the permission you need to be your true real self calling in the people you want to serve... And honey, you just keep showing up... You set the goal for your business, for your life and then you release it and JUST SHOW UP! You tap into a deep courage within you just to be you and KNOW that it is enough! You stop indulging the fear, the self-doubt... You see it but you lay it to one side and you show up with your mess and with your glory and with your vision... You stop waiting for some external person to tell you to go... You say what must be said... And you release it... You stop caring so much about the result because you trust that your people are watching cautiously to start with and then little by little, they put their hands up and come closer into your world... And little by little, everything changes... The people you are surrounded by are exactly the people you saw in your vision of what life could be... Your bank account looks exactly how you saw it in your vision and in fact, you now wish you had asked for more and so you do... You wake up feeling good and excited about the work you are now doing and wonder why it took you so long to take off the limits that others (and yourself) had imposed on you because now, life feels so good... Business, life, life, business... All flowing lovely together... And you feel fulfilled but not so fulfilled that you are not already looking to the next thing... Ultimately, you learn by trusting that your mess is your true message and your vision has always been your permission to move. Is there a point to this? Your mess is your message - Share it... Your vision is your permission - MOVE! Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live Because you want to! Don't give up! DonVic believes in you greatly. You are the next in line for a miracle. However position yourself well to receive it. My father once said to be: "Chiemela, Never rest on your oars". I never understood it at first but those words lingered long in my head. Keep paddling, even if the waves of life's sea are moving in the opposite direction. You will get there, and your name will be heard too. Winston Churchill, the former Prime Minister of UK was invited to give a speech to some children in the primary school where he attended, and all he said was: "Never give up, Never ever give up, Never never ever give up!" No matter what life throws at you, you can use those stones and bricks to make a good foundation and build your dream house. You are an achiever, you are a warrior, you are a Victor. I bless you today, dream big. You too can be in Guinness Book of World Record, or win a Nobel Prize or be an International Ambassador. Greater things are on the way for you, simply open up your mind to possibilities. I believe in you. Maybe you thought today is so bleak, keep knocking at that wall, it will come down. At the end of the tunnel, there is always light. No matter who says you can't make it, tell them you can because DonVic says so. Life is no bed of roses, but we can get our beds with roses, only if we work harder. I know you are determined, and so success is knocking on your door, just open the door. Its as simple as that- Open the door to Success. Sometimes you are told you cannot make it, or be a manager at your place of work. People can say you will not see the stuff you want, be passionate. Look for people that will genuinely help you, teach you what you need to know, and seek knowledge like its all you need, and you will be both wiser and richer. In life, there is something people don't see behind a successful man, and that is the time, challenges, effort, determination, failures he has had, losses he has had, trials he has had, etc. However, he stayed determined and became successful in his career/business. This is called the ICEBERG ILLUSION. People now want to associate with him simple because he has "arrived". Being a success mounts you up on wings like an eagle, but you must never forget your humble beginnings. Be humble, and know your root, and where you started. In trying to get to the top, you can climb on people's bags, receive help when you need it, do not be proud. Do not care what his family will think of you, if you think he/she can help you, try to reach out. Be polite and diplomatic in your actions but also be dependable. Know what you want and go for it. A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. In life, keep positive. They say: "opportunity comes but once" I say: Opportunity does not come just once, it comes many times, just be open and ready for it. You should never waste any opportunity given to you, because time is precious. Time lost can never be regained. Plan yourself well, use your time wisely. My prayer for you today is that you will be a solution provider. Nations will come to you for advise. You shall make it big time, just believe. Believe in yourself and trust GOD. God is the ultimate. Stay great. See you at the top! Happy sabbath, Best wishes to you. DonVic cares....

Saturday, April 16, 2016

Succeed Regardless Of the Conditions

Hi Victor,

How do you Succeed Regardless Of the Conditions?

This is a wonderful day, a day that holds a lot of promise for you. I see you take it; you will not miss it.

As someone who has experienced the transforming power of ideas, I want to advise against the decision to wait for an ideal time before commencing on your idea. Hmm! When it comes to starting an idea usually, you may not have perfect conditions.

Here is what happens when you act quickly irrespective of the obstacles.

Forces are released to arrange circumstances, events and people to work with you and make sure the idea becomes a reality.

That was my experience when I got the idea to teach success principles on air.

It was a great idea but I did not have the funds to pay for airtime. Nevertheless, I took steps toward its fulfillment, I did relevant research including finding out the cost for the first quarter on radio and guess what?

The money came. Someone surprisingly paid for the first quarter.

So, do not allow any obstacle hold you back; launch out on your idea.

When you act boldly, unforeseen forces will come to your aid.

You will succeed!

Sam Adeyemi
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Connection to Your Next Level of Success

Great day Victor,
Do you know The Connection to Your Next Level of Success?

I see you experiencing increase on all sides today. I would like for you to take out time to ponder on this.

One idea speedily acted on is the connection to your next level of success.

A friend got an idea to write a small pamphlet on how to organise personal retreats. The following day, he embarked on a two-day personal retreat to put the thoughts together. During which, he experienced an unusual inspiration and an expanded idea to turn the book into a bigger project. Now he organises retreats for corporate executives who pay him handsome amounts of money to attend. His manual on retreat has also been of tremendous benefit to many.

Some years back, God dropped an idea in my mind to start radio broadcasts teaching people on success principles. I acted on the idea, starting small with some initial challenges. The radio broadcast was called Success Power. Today Success Power broadcasts are on most of television stations in Nigeria and have gone international, airing in some African countries and other continents of the world. Again, I had an idea to start an online coaching tagged, Sam Adeyemi Coaching Programme (SACP).

If you are reading this message today, it is a result of acting on that idea. What of if I just put the idea in my diary and did nothing about it? Oh! My goodness! Countless lives would have missed out on its awesome benefits.

Likewise people are waiting to be blessed by your idea; start now!

See you at the top!
Sam Adeyemi

Touching Hearts

There was a teacher called Mrs. Thompson, who loved her students. One day, as she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.

Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he did not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.

It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be around.."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper That he got from a grocery bag Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume.. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.

On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her favourite kids in the class.

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer.... The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.

The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.

They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."

(For you that don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Dr. at Iowa Methodist Hospital in Des Moines that has the Stoddard Cancer Wing.)

Warm someone's heart today. . . share this page or blog. I love this story so very much, I feel like crying every time I read it. Just try to make a difference in someone's life today? tomorrow? Just "do it".

Random acts of kindness, I think they call it?

"Believe in Angels, then return the favor."