5 Things To Look For In A Partner!!

Marriage is one institution which God made and blessed and it is holy but it takes two to tangle.

Marriage is a life-long commitment, so it is important that you find someone who’s just perfect for you. There is a common belief that marriages are made in heaven, but when it comes to selecting a life-partner it can’t be left to destiny or luck, right? You need to make an effort to know the person better and have shared interests. Here are some qualities you should look for in your prospective partner…

1. Maturity
This is one important quality you need to look for in your life partner . S/he should be mentally prepared to take on responsibilities of a family and should be capable of taking independent decisions at the time of crisis. Physical, emotional and intellectual maturity can be termed as ingredients that will lead to the stability of a relationship in the future. So, find out how matured and mentally prepared s/he really is before getting hitched.

2. Good Family Background
This is of utmost importance and can’t be ignored, as marriage is not just the coming together of two individuals but two families. Religion, culture, traditions and values play an important role when it comes to marriage and living under the same roof. A rift can occur and scar the relationship forever if even one of the two families is too orthodox or too broad-minded. Lifestyle, food habits, religious sentiments, etc are few important factors to be considered.

3. Financial Stability
Your partner should have a stable income. What if one of you lose your job, due to some reason after marriage? So, it’s important that both of you are equally stable. You don’t have to feel uncomfortable discussing money matters ahead of time. For instance, you could talk about your spending habits and find out where you both feel your money should go, etc. This can prevent disagreements later. Also, discuss how you and your partner feel about buying, saving, and sharing bank accounts (if needed).

4. Sense of Humour
Having a partner with good sense of humour will ease out your worries in difficult times. This gives one the courage to take things light-heartedly and adds zeal to a marriage. Believe it or not, but when the going gets tough, good sense of humour can take you smoothly even through rough situations. Life is so much fun when your partner has a good sense of humour and knows how to be there for you to put a smile on your face.

5. Emotional Compatibility and much more…
Be it, good personal hygiene, adjusting nature, physical and emotional compatibility, etc these are all important factors that determine the success of a marriage. Mutual trust and respect helps you share things openly, as a couple. Also, ease of communication leads to a long-lasting relationship, which in turn helps you to resolve the issues in a mature manner.

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Husband left wife for younger lady

Probably you have read or heard about interesting love story when a husband leaves his wife for much younger woman. Well, in this article you will read such story.

After 37 years of marriage Jake decided to leave his wife for his young secretary. Probably the most interesting fact is that Jake’s new love partner wanted to live in his and Edith’s home. So, it won’t surprise you that this house is worth more than one million dollars. His lawyers won in the lawsuit and Jake was free to live in the house with his lover.

Defeated woman named Edith had just three days to leave the house. On the first day she packed her stuffs into box crates and suitcases. The second day the movers came to get her things. On the third day, she decided to sit down in the dinning – room for the last time. She had a meal of a pound of shrimp, a jar of caviar and a bottle of Chardonnay.

When Edith was done with her lunch, she went into each and every room and placed half – eaten shrimp shells soaked in caviar into the hollow of all of the curtain rods. After that she went back in the kitchen, cleaned it and left the house. The next few days, the ex husband and his new lover moved in and everything was great.

After few days strange and disgusting smell began to spread around the house. The smell was so strong and was unbearably, so they tried with cleaning the house and airing it. New couple ensured that there aren’t any died rodents and washed the carpets. They had air fresheners everywhere.

In addition, they even brought exterminators in order to set off gas canisters. Jake and the secretary had to move out from the house for several days. They replaced even the wool carpeting, which was quite expensive. But the smell was still there and it was getting worse.

After few weeks their friends stopped coming by, and even their repairman couldn’t work anymore in the house. The maid also was gone.

Finally Jake and his new love were forced to move out from the house because the smell was too strong. The house was on sale, but there weren’t any buyers, even when the price was cut on half.

This intriguing story spread around the city quick and even their local realtors avoided to return their calls. So, they were forced to take a huge loan from the bank to buy a new house.

Edith called her ex husband and ask him how the things are working out for him. He told her about his problems with the house. She listened like she didn’t know anything and told him that she misses the house so bad that she would decrease her divorce settlement in exchange for taking the house back.

In this story, it turned out that Jake is naïve, although he was convinced that the fortune has smiled upon him and agreed to give her the house on a price around 1/10 of the overall worth. The only requirement and condition that Jake had was Edith to sign the papers that day. She agreed and the job was done within one hour.

One week later the two lovers were satisfied while watching the movers packing their things and taking them into their new house.

INCLUDING THE CURTAIN RODS!

Source: seriouslyforreal.com